"Leave Her For Me"
63"I'm leaving her."
Does This Excuse Still Work?
Please don't tell me that you are dating a man with a girlfriend or is married because you think that he will leave her for you. Let me guess. When he met you did he tell you about all of the things that was wrong with his woman, what she won't do, can't do or why their relationship just wasn't going to work? Some men will even go as far as to say, "If only I had a woman like you." I can't believe that some women actually believe this lie because that is exactly what it is, a lie. Don't you know that if he was going to leave her, he would have left her before he ever met you?
Think about it, If he is still in a relationship when you meet him, then it he must be getting something that he still wants out of the relationship. So, he is probably going to want that same "something" even after starting a relationship with you? Whether it is sex, money, status, or the kids, he is still there for a reason. Keep it real with yourself and know that he will never leave her for you. Even if by some chance he does leave, he will find a reason to leave you too.
IrisMiranda 2 weeks ago
Well, I don't fully agree. I've been on the other side - my husband was a cheater. During our 13 years of marriage he had pretty much one indiscretion per year and a half (which I found out after the divorce). And he left me for the last one.
Now, 5 years later I'm happy that it happened - my life today is much better and I now understand that in my own way I have been miserable being with him too although while married to him I thought we had a perfect life.
Things are never only black or only white. And for good or for bad, married men do leave their wives - just check out the divorce rates these days...